Ready for a fresh start? Float bad dating habits this Loy Krathong

Loy Krathong is all about release – letting go of what no longer serves you and making space for what does. So while you’re setting your krathong afloat this year, why not let go of a few not-so-great dating habits, too?

Here are a few that deserve to drift away for good.

1. Waiting for someone else to make the first move

We’ve heard that the universe rewards action. Well, guess what? So does dating. So much so that chats started on CMB within three hours of matching are 52% more likely to get a response!

And hey, you’re on a dating app to actually meet someone, not just scroll through faces and rack up some likes. So why wait?  

But if you find yourself staring at your phone, still feeling nervous about making a first move, try to think of it this way: Whether it’s sending the first message or suggesting a date, taking initiative doesn’t make you “too eager.” It just makes you intentional.

2. Settling for half-hearted effort

If they only text when it’s convenient, their replies feel more like a checklist than a conversation, or you’re the only one making moves to get off the screen and into real life, it’s time to float that one away.

Now, we’re not saying every single interaction needs fireworks and butterflies to be worthwhile. But connection should flow naturally, not feel like you’re fighting to swim upstream. 

You deserve someone who’s excited to see you, hear about your day, and plan a future together. Don’t settle for anything less. 

3. Creating unrealistic expectations 

Do you have a checklist in your head when looking for someone new? It might be holding you back. 

Now, don’t get us wrong! You should definitely go into dating knowing what you want, and standards are so important. But if your list is full of little things that don’t really make or break a good relationship, you might actually be missing out on some great people. 

Need some more convincing? Here’s a fun fact: We found out that the average CMB Dater has more than 20 requirements for their future partner…but the number of people who actually ended up with someone who fit their list? Less than 4%. 

So, think about what’s a nice-to-have, and what’s an actual dealbreaker. That way, you can focus on what matters most, like shared values and future plans. 

4. Ignoring warning signs because they’re cute

We’ve all been guilty of this one a time or two, because it’s so easy to get swept up in something new! And sometimes, you want a relationship to work out so badly that you’re willing to turn a blind eye.

But here’s the thing: Chemistry only takes you so far, and a lack of compatibility will catch up to you one way or another. If someone doesn’t want something serious and says so, believe them. Or if a match isn’t the family type but you know you want kids, that’s a disagreement you can’t ignore. 

So, say it with us: No more falling for “potential.” 

5. Trying to be “chill” when you actually care

This one deserves a proper send-off – into the river, forever. Because who decided that being nonchalant was the cool thing to do? 

You’re dating to find the person you want to spend the rest of your life with – that’s a big deal! You’re allowed to be excited about a new match, nervous on a first date, or upset when something doesn’t work out. 

Pretending not to care is both exhausting and overrated. And another thing? Owning your feelings and sharing them with someone is attractive. So go ahead, be loud and proud about what’s going through your head. 

Float what doesn’t serve you, keep what lifts you up

Every new connection is a chance to begin again, and it’s never too late to reset – whether that’s your dating habits, your profile, or your attitude. 

So, as you make your wish this Loy Krathong, remember: Love isn’t found by waiting around. It’s made by showing up as your most honest, authentic, and intentional self.